V and I are kinda sorta back on track. Had a talk last night, without distractions (usually I have on the TV or computer or both in the background when talking), and she had been told by a friend that she had overreacted about the actual post she went off at - apparently the justification was 'he's a writer, he expresses himself and gets his thoughts out that way' - and secondly, and maybe more importantly, wouldn't send argument emails to work.
Talked to my boss yesterday afternoon to tell her I would be back in today, and I said I could have stayed in the office and not done customer calls, email work instead, she said it's understandable you went home, so that was nice, she got brownie points for yesterday. Of course, forty people can do my job in the office when I am away, so it's not as if I was missed that much workwise I am sure.
Next step is V visiting next month - is in town for just over a week, really need to have a 'discussion' about where we are headed, rather than just keep everything perfect around each other. You can't have 'discussions' by phone or email or messenger - will see what happens.
Pauly
Talked to my boss yesterday afternoon to tell her I would be back in today, and I said I could have stayed in the office and not done customer calls, email work instead, she said it's understandable you went home, so that was nice, she got brownie points for yesterday. Of course, forty people can do my job in the office when I am away, so it's not as if I was missed that much workwise I am sure.
Next step is V visiting next month - is in town for just over a week, really need to have a 'discussion' about where we are headed, rather than just keep everything perfect around each other. You can't have 'discussions' by phone or email or messenger - will see what happens.
Pauly
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